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I help you navigate life’s transitions with clarity, courage, and self-trust through reflective writing, practical tools, and stories that inspire you to embrace change and move confidently forward.
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I’m Rita Burgett Martell, an author, coach, and lifelong student of change. For more than 35 years, I’ve had the privilege of helping Fortune 500 companies and more than 11,000 individuals navigate transformation, reinvention, and the defining moments that shape our lives. But my understanding of change isn’t only professional it’s personal. I’ve reinvented my own life in many ways, from becoming a young mother to earning my degree summa cum laude, founding a women’s center, and eventually becoming a trusted advisor to global executives. Learn More About Rita
My Work: Tools for Navigating Change
CHANGE READY

Change Ready! is a practical guide for managers and leaders navigating change in the modern workplace. It provides step-by-step strategies to transform resistance into readiness, reduce fear, and build a workplace culture that embraces and sustains meaningful change.
DEFINING MOMENTS

Defining Moments is an inspiring guide to recognizing life’s turning points and embracing the opportunities they create. Through personal stories, practical exercises, and proven techniques, it helps me overcome fear, gain clarity, and find the courage to create a more fulfilling life.
The Mantra Series

A collection of short, powerful reflections designed to help you embrace change, release old patterns, and welcome new beginnings.
Your Top 10 Mantras: A Closing Reflection
Over the past few months, I’ve shared my Top 10 Mantras, short, powerful phrases that have helped me navigate challenges, changes, and uncertainty. My hope was simple: to give you something steady to hold onto in a world that often feels anything but steady.
Hearing from so many of you who opened the Monday Motivator and found the exact mantra you needed has been the greatest reward. Thank you for reading, reflecting, and sharing your stories with me.
As we close out this series, here’s a quick review of each mantra. You can find the full articles at ritaburgettmartell.com.
Mantra #1: What’s Important Now
A compass for your current season. This question simplifies decision-making by aligning your choices with what matters right now. When you live in sync with your season, life feels lighter, clearer, and more meaningful.
Mantra #2: Now is Not Forever
A reminder of impermanence, both the good and the bad. It helps you savor joy and endure struggle. When life feels overwhelming, this mantra offers perspective and hope: better days are ahead.
Mantra #3: SW SW SW N – Some Will. Some Won’t. So What? Next!
A reset button for rejection. It interrupts the spiral of self‑doubt and reminds you that someone else’s opinion is not a measure of your worth. Your next “yes” is still out there.
Mantra #4: I Am Creating a Beautiful Life
When life falls apart or simply stops feeling right, this mantra reminds you that you don’t have to settle. A beautiful life isn’t found, it’s built, one intentional choice at a time.
Mantra #5: I Trust Myself to Make the Best Decision for Me
A return to your inner wisdom. It quiets the noise of other people’s opinions and strengthens your courage to choose what’s right for your life. No one knows your path better than you.
Mantra #6: I Let Go of What I Cannot Control
A release of unnecessary burdens. Trying to control the uncontrollable drains your energy and peace. Letting go isn’t weakness, it’s wisdom. It frees you to focus on what’s truly yours.
Mantra #7: I Choose to Focus on What’s Good
A shift in perspective. This mantra doesn’t deny reality, it reframes it. What you focus on expands. Choosing the good invites more of it into your life.
Mantra #8: My Faith Is Stronger Than My Fear
A steadying force in uncertain moments. Faith doesn’t erase fear; it keeps fear from running the show. It gives you courage to move forward even when the path isn’t clear.
Mantra #9: I Embrace Change and Look Forward to New Beginnings
A companion for transition. When life feels foggy and unfamiliar, this mantra helps you shift from loss to possibility. Every ending carries the seed of a new beginning.
Mantra #10: I Am Confident
A gentle but powerful mindset shift. Confidence shapes how you show up in the world. Repeating this mantra interrupts the voice that keeps you small and strengthens the one that lifts you higher. Confidence grows with use and this mantra is one way to practice it.
A Closing Thought
As you carry these mantras into your daily life, I hope they continue to steady you, strengthen you, and remind you of your own resilience. You already have everything you need to navigate whatever comes next, one mantra, one moment at a time.
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